Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, \”How to win friends and influence people\” writes about the simple power of asking good questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
You\’ve probably been to a party and you\’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you\’re a woman and want to brush a guy\’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who\’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?
7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?
8. What\’s the most funniest experience you have had in your whole life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What\’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What\’s your biggest sexual \’turn-ons\’ and \’turn-offs\’?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught playing with yourself? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?
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